We often forget to
think about how we are actually thinking. That
is sort of like refusing to insist that the fox
has to notify you if any holes and weaknesses
pop up in the hen house. It is to the fox's
benefit to keep you from knowing of these
weaknesses so that he can take advantage of
them. It is also to your unsurrendered soul's
advantage to keep you from thinking about the
wrong thoughts you are thinking.
I spoke with a
friend in the ministry a few months ago, a
friend who was very tired, discouraged, and
struggling. She said, I just have to believe
that I cannot believe anything my mind or
emotions are trying to tell me right now.
Amen! When you are
tired or discouraged, your soul sometimes goes
into overdrive to convince you that every
negative thought or emotion it is putting forth
is true. It's true, it's all true! You're not
going to make it; you're failing on every front.
Listen to me. You aren't going to make it,
you've never had a chance, and no one cares! At
the first sign of fatigue or weakness on your
part, your soul recognizes that it is the best
possible time to attack your spiritual beliefs,
your hopes and dreams, and your relationship
with God.
Your thought life
originates in your soul which consists of your
mind, will, and emotions. When you accepted
Jesus Christ as your Savior, your soul probably
(just like at least 98% of all new Christians)
backed up, dug in, and said, We're not going
there! Until your soul has completely
surrendered to God's love, plans, and truth, it
will constantly try to take back territory in
your thoughts and emotions that it once had
control over.
I have had people
tell me that they don't have any problems with
their thought life, they just take authority
over their thoughts and emotions. Unfortunately,
this really does not work. Your soul may try to
deceive you into thinking that it is subject to
your decision to take authority over it-which it
does by backing off on the wrong thoughts and
emotions temporarily. All the while, your soul
is planning to come at you another way.
The part of you
that would allow you to take authority over
anything is your will, and your will interacts
closely with your thoughts and emotions. Rarely
(if ever!) will your soul stand up against
itself; and therein lies the key to
understanding why the Keys of the Kingdom prayer
principles can be so valuable to you! The prayer
principles using the binding and loosing keys
allow you force your soul to give up its wrong
thoughts and its wrong emotional reactions and
responses.
What does it mean
when you say you are going to take authority
over something, perhaps your own thought life?
In order to
exercise any kind of authority, there must be a
source ready, willing, and able to back up a
delegated secondary agent of that authority with
an adequate reserve of power.
Your desire to
take authority over your feelings and thoughts
is admirable, but you would have to fight
yourself to do so. That is an internal civil war
that you can't win. Your soul's will power will
not stand (for any length of time) against the
combined force of a negative mind and negative
emotions determined to express themselves. Your
will cannot control your inner thoughts and your
emotions for very long.
The only answer is
that you need to change how you think. The
description from above of a source with an
adequate reserve of power certainly fits our
God. You need to understand exactly what God
will back up according to your spoken words and
beliefs as opposed to what God has told you to
let go of in order to receive His help in
changing how you think about things. You can try
to take authority over an empty gas tank all day
long, and your car still won't run. You can try
to take authority over a stack of unpaid bills
all week long, and they still won't be paid.
You can speak with
the authority of Christ only when it furthers
His plans and purposes-not when you just wish to
get yourself out of something unpleasant or out
of the consequences of your own wrong choices.
You are the one
who is still choosing to make wrong choices,
regardless of how you were raised. Wrong choices
others made for you are in the past and should
be forgiven. You do not have to allow your mind
to keep recycling the effects of wrong choices
other people made for you (as a child, as an
employee, as an abused spouse, etc.). You can
pray and bind your will to God's will, your mind
to the mind of Christ, and your emotions to the
healing balance and comfort of the Holy Spirit.
Then you can loose, smash, crush, and destroy
the effects and influence of all wrong choices
other people made that have influenced your
life.
Some people had
the blessing of being raised by godly people who
taught them how to make right choices. Most of
us didn't. That doesn't mean you can choose to
think wrong thoughts about or blame the people
who raised you. You need to come of out of your
own self-focus on this issue and recognize that
when people fall short of being perfect in
raising children, it is because they were raised
by people who fell short of being perfect. And
those people were raised by people who fell
short of being perfect! At some point you have
to recognize that trying to find someone to
blame for shortcomings in how you were raised is
going to take you on a forever trip clear back
to the Garden of Eden. There is a better way to
think about this!
God has left a
highly effective instruction manual along with a
collection of His love letters to encourage you
that you can learn how to make right, godly
choices. Right and godly thoughts produce right
and godly choices which produce right and godly
consequences. You are the one who has to want to
learn how to think right and godly thoughts that
will help you make the good choices. You are the
one who has been told to take wrong thoughts
captive in 2 Corinthians 10:5. You do this by
choosing to stop thinking rerunning the negative
thoughts if for only a moment, just long enough
to pray and bind your mind to the mind of Christ
and then immediately follow that up by loosing
all wrong thoughts coming out of your not-yet
renewed mind!
We demolish
arguments and every pretension that sets itself
up against the knowledge of God; and we take
captive every thought to make it obedient to
Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5, NIV).
Nowhere in the
Bible can you read that God will use His power
to override and change your thought life. But He
has given us the Keys of the Kingdom which allow
you to pray with all of their supernatural power
(power is another word for authority) to clear
wrong beliefs, wrong thought patterns, and wrong
attitudes out of your soul. This makes room
within your soul (mind, will, and emotions) to
allow God's love to flow into you and take root
within your inner being.
The closest thing
to your being able to take authority over
yourself is when you choose to both receive and
to cooperate with the Fruit of the Spirit. The
fruit of self-control (or temperance which means
to choose to practice self-restraint) helps you
to recognize and want to loose (eliminate) wrong
patterns of thinking. Allowing your soul to keep
recycling its wrong patterns of thinking will
keep you from wanting to bind your mind to the
mind of Christ to hear His right thoughts. You
need to focus on the results of cooperating with
the Fruit of the Spirit (which will be covered
in a later Key). Keeping focused means you
choose to not allow any worldly, soulish, or
demonic distractions to interfere with whatever
results you are expecting.
What are worldly,
soulish, and demonic distractions? Attempts of
others, your soul, and the enemy to convince you
that you do not really want or will never attain
what you are hoping to have. You keep these
distractions from interfering by staying focused
on your spiritual goal or goals, by binding your
will to God's will, and by loosing any worldly,
soulish, or demonic distractions that would
interfere with God's plans and purposes to
bless, prosper, and give you fantastic
opportunities that will fulfill you and give you
great joy.
Successful
athletes exercise self-control as they are
training because they have a clearly defined
purpose or goal. Having a clearly defined
purpose or goal for your Christian walk and
destiny helps you to focus on thinking right
thoughts. Not having any self-control and making
wrong choices have a lot to do with not having a
clear goal in your mind.
As Paul wrote his
letter to the Philippians from jail, he said in
Chapter 2:10 (The Message) that whoever had
thrown him in jail had not shut him up. They had
only given him a new pulpit to preach from! That
is an incredible way to think about something
that would floor some of today's Christians.
Paul knew what his goal and his purpose were. If
you were suddenly wrongfully thrown into jail,
could you see that as an opportunity to have the
opportunity of a jail ministry right down where
the rubber meets the road?
I can hardly wait
to continue on my course. I don't expect to be
embarrassed in the least. On the contrary,
everything happening to me in this jail only
serves to make Christ more accurately known,
regardless of whether I live or die. They didn't
shut me up; they gave me a pulpit!
Paul is such an
excellent role model for the right way to think
about everything in this life all the way to
your death, which is also your graduation to
being present with the Lord in heaven. Paul's
goal for living or dying is quite amazing. He
did not worry about what he had not yet done in
his life or what he still wanted to be able to
see and do if he was to suddenly die. Instead he
said the following (Philippians 1:22-25, The
Message) as he thought about what his life was
like:
As long as I'm
alive in this body, there is good work for me to
do. If I had to choose right now, I hardly know
which I'd choose. Hard choice! The desire to
break camp here and be with Christ is powerful.
Some days I can think of nothing better. But
most days, because of what you are going
through, I am sure that it's better for me to
stick it out here.
His thoughts about
staying alive and finishing his work were
focused on what would be better for those he
would be influencing as long as he was with
them. He decided they needed the message and the
love he would share with them more than he
needed to be with Christ in heaven. That is
right thinking to the max! Ask yourself if you
could choose to live or die today, what would
truly most affect your thinking about making
this choice?
What goals do you
have for your Christian destiny? Is your goal
just to tie a knot in the rope you desperately
clinging to and hang on until the Rapture? What
excuses pop into your thinking for not having a
clear cut goal for your destiny and for your
relationship with God? Here's an important goal
for you right here: CHANGING THE WAY YOU THINK.
Changing how you think is also a key factor to
enhancing the life you are currently living, not
just the final goal of getting to heaven.
Having a godly
goal makes it is easier for you to make right
decisions every day because you can line up any
choice you face with the parameters of the goal
you have set.
In the natural
realm, for instance, suppose one of your
immediate goals is to fit into your old Navy
uniform for a special honor ceremony at your
church. This pre-set goal helps you focus on
getting up and jogging in the morning. If one of
your immediate goals is to find a way to
volunteer in orphanages in Mexico for the
summer, that pre-set goal can help you can focus
on choosing whether or not you should sign up
for that expensive, luxury cruise to Italy this
year. Having a real goal helps you think right
thoughts which helps you make right choices
which helps you achieve your goal.
So what
reasonable, actual, attainable spiritual goals
have you pre-set in your mind? If one of them is
get up early and read the Bible every morning,
you are going to have to change how you think
about crawling out of the bed earlier than
usual. If one of your pre-set goals is that you
want to take a missionary trip, then you need to
start thinking about learning some of the
language, learning something about the culture,
and how to set up a budget to help you finance
your trip. If one of your goals is to show love
to others in a more tangible way, then find a
place where you can especially show love to
people others prefer to ignore.
While these are
not necessarily goals you will act upon every
day, every single action you take to move
towards these goals will enhance your daily life
and your relationships.
Bind your will to
God's will and timing for your goal or goals,
and then loose any worldly, soulish, or demonic
distractions and reactions that would cause you
to think you can't attain the goal. If God tells
you this is not His goal for you in the time
frame you were expecting, then He will help you
understand that He has a better goal for you for
right now. God loves to help you and support and
provide for you to attain good, godly goals that
line up with His will for your life. He may just
not do it in your understanding of His timing.
Our ministry once
received a very large donation from someone who
said they had wanted to give a sizable donation
to our ministry seven years earlier, but God had
said not yet. This person invested the money and
waited on God's further directives. This person
had a goal that was submitted to God for His
timing and His direction. Seven years later God
told this person to sell and release the
invested funds to our ministry, funds which had
quadrupled by that time! God's way is always the
best way.
This person's
integrity and willingness to be in God's will
however long it took to bear fruit is
remarkable! This person could have gone ahead
and given us the donation seven years earlier.
Or because of the incredible growth of the
funds, that person could have decided to hold
back part of the funds and just bless us with
the rest. However, because of integrity and
obedience to God's directives, when the goal of
donating to the ministry was eventually
achieved, it was achieved four times greater
than that person originally intended!
You finally see a
goal for your life that you are sure is from
God. Then He says wait or even harder, He says
nothing. So you pray and hope and wait. If you
do not know how to release the negative thoughts
that can come from having to wait with no
response from God, they can get pretty out of
control some times. So what do you do with them?
First of all, remember that you cannot take
authority or speak control over your thoughts!
You must focus on changing the way you think
which requires some form of action.
God will not
control your negative thoughts and emotional
reactions for you!
The Keys of the
Kingdom binding and loosing prayers can help you
dislodge wrong thoughts that arise in you mind,
wrong thoughts that can keep your answer and His
supernatural help from showing up. Reading the
Word of God can then help you plant new patterns
of thinking in the area you have just cleared
out of your soul. As you read the Word while
praying the binding and loosing prayers, you
will begin to see things in a new way of knowing
how to choose what to do and then choosing to do
it!
There was a time
when our ministry was in a financial struggle
and we still owed several hundred dollars to a
big Catholic Retreat Center for a retreat they
had allowed us to hold there. I am ashamed to
admit that I began to rationalize that this
massive, beautiful center could afford to wait
for the money more than our ministry could
afford to pay it at that time. My soul was very
happy to rationalize making such a
decision-after all, we would pay it some day.
Filing that decision away as a to-do-some-day
action, the binding and loosing prayers that I
was praying daily suddenly caused a breakthrough
in such rationalizations and justifications. As
I was reading the Bible, a certain verse got
right up in my face!
I read that I was
to keep my word even when it hurt me and cost me
personally to do so!
I couldn't get
over to that retreat center fast enough to ask
their forgiveness, show them that verse, and
then write out a personal check for the full
amount. I was the one who should have to wait
for the money, not them. That was the issue, not
whether or not it was hard for me to come up
with that money personally. Every Christian
needs to change how they think about following
through on what they say they are going to do.
Christians are far too lax about thinking others
will forgive and God will forgive when they
don't follow through and everything will be just
fine. Are you the kind of Christian that people
would describe the way they automatically
describe this person: Jerry said he would help
you in this project? He'll be there, I promise.
You can trust whatever Jerry says he will do
because Jerry always keeps his word.
I had given the
people at the retreat center my word that we
would pay the balance of the retreat costs as
soon as the retreat was over. We went into the
whole on that retreat and there was no money to
use. This, however, turned into using other
monies to pay other bills because the retreat
center never complained. Then the day came when
that verse got up in my face along with praying
the binding and loosing prayers which caused me
to examine and change my thinking. I came to the
conclusion that no one else should have to wait
for me to get around to fulfilling my promises.
The Word of God was speaking directly to me
saying that I had to keep my word, even when it
really hurt me personally to do it!
It is amazing how
many people allow their souls to distract them
from identifying their wrong thought patterns
for so long that they don't even notice when
their thoughts head down the wrong road. Dear
people, faithful in church and always ready to
give, can shout amen and agree enthusiastically
with everything the speaker is saying. Then
these same people can get up and walk out after
Sunday church, go to lunch with other
Christians, and join right in with gossiping and
criticizing the pastor.
If this describes
you and you have real friends who care, they
should lovingly point this out to you. If you
would insist that you are fine and you love the
pastor and you can't believe your friend just
said that to you, you are in trouble. If you say
you only wish the pastor could see what he is
not doing right and then start doing it, it is
you who are in trouble. If you say that you
really weren't aware you were doing that, so it
wasn't intentional and that doesn't count, you
are in trouble. I saw a funny cartoon a few days
ago of a lady ignorantly walking out of a public
bathroom with her dress caught up in the back of
her panty hose. The caption said, Ignorance does
not change the facts!
You need to settle
a goal in your mind and think about it. If you
have the goal of truly being who God wants you
to be, you will be able to admit you may have a
problem with your thought life. You will be able
to admit you may have a problem with the words
of your mouth. You may also be able to admit
that you don't always welcome correction even
when it is made in love. This is not easy for
anyone, and without a goal in mind, your soul
can find dozens of ways to rationalize and
justify the wrong words you have spoken out of
the wrong thoughts of your heart (soul). If you
truly set a goal of making right choices and
thinking right thoughts, you can ask the Holy
Spirit to help you. Bind your will to God's will
and bind your mind to the mind of Christ. Then
remember to be faithful in refilling your mind
with the reading of the Word.
God is not asking
you to find all of your own weaknesses and
failings and correct them all by yourself. God
is asking you to be willing to be aware of your
shortcomings (as He or one of His special agents
point them out to you and then want to do
something about them. You cannot make yourself
be kind or patient or gentle by commanding
yourself to become these things, but His grace
will work in you as you follow this pattern:
1. Pray
with the Keys of the Kingdom to make room to
receive God's Grace and His fruit
2. Take
action on what He tells you and reveals to you
3.
Practice (take action) what you learn from
reading the Word
4. Enjoy
the fruit of the experience you gain through
doing this and share it with others
Every thought
pattern and word spoken will bear fruit. Kind
thought patterns and words will bear the fruit
of kindness, blessing, joy, peace, and love.
Evil or cruel thought patterns and words will
bear the fruit of death, ruin, and calamity. The
choice really is yours. The help you need to
make the right choice comes from Him, and it
will be freely given to the one who sets his or
her goal as wanting to be able to change the
wrong thinking in their souls.
Blessed Father, I
am making a choice right now that I want to
learn how to think right thoughts. I bind my
will to your will, Lord, which means I am
obligating myself to your will. I bind my mind
to your mind, Jesus; and I bind my emotions to
your healing balance, comfort, and support, Holy
Spirit. Help me to understand how to change what
I can change and how to surrender to you that
which you want me to give up.
Show me how to
represent your authority in the ways that please
you, not in ways that my soul thinks will
benefit it.
I loose, smash,
crush, and destroy all of my unsurrendered
soul's rationalizations and justifications about
the wrong thoughts that I admit go through my
mind. Forgive me for those wrong thoughts;
forgive me for doing things that feed those
wrong thoughts. I want to think on things that
Christ wants me to think about. I want to do
what the Apostle Paul told the Philippians to
do: Finally, brothers, whatever is true,
whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever
is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is
admirable-if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy-think about such things
(Philippians 4:8, NIV).
Forgive me for
failing to take my wrong thoughts captive. I
bind my mind to your mind, Jesus, and I loose
all of the wrong thought patterns in my soul
that I have never challenged. No more, soul! No
more! I will be on guard and ready to loose
whatever negative or false thoughts try to form
in my mind. I want to practice thinking,
speaking, and acting in love. I want to bless
others. I know you have already made the choice
to bless me, Father God, so I do not want to
focus on what I think I need or want. I bind
myself to your timing and I choose to learn how
to be patient.
Help me to be a
sweet fruit bearer. Help me remember that your
Word will tell me what to do in every situation.
Help me to always remember that you are with me
even when you are working behind the scenes and
I don't know what you are doing. I love you and
I want to love others as you want me to. Thank
you, Amen.